Stop fucking normalizing it. It’s not cute to be unfaithful to someone who fucking loves you.
I’m just so tired of seeing and hearing about people cheating on their significant other. Stop it. If you don’t want to loyal to one person, don’t be in a relationship. Let me emphasize, YOU DON’T WANT TO BE LOYAL. It’s not that you can’t, it’s that you’re a shit of piece that chooses not to be.
Do you understand how difficult it is to find someone that vibes with you? Someone that actually gives a shit about you, your life, your well-being, your fucking happiness? No. Of course you don’t, you have someone like that. Someone that’s in love with you and is building a life with you. But you’re taking them for granted. It’s easy to find someone that will entertain you for a few days or weeks, but guess what? They’re probably entertaining other people too. They have no commitment to you and they don’t want you enough to be exclusive.
It’s not okay to cheat. It’s not okay to fall in love with someone and hurt them so fucking bad that they no longer have faith in relationships. It’s not okay to treat someone like a toy. It’s not okay to share a life with someone and fuck around on them behind their backs. You might as well take a knife and shove it in their back because it would hurt so much less. It’s not okay to hurt someone you love. Think about how much time and effort you put into your relationship, you really want to give them away to be with someone else? If the feelings aren’t there for you anymore, just end things. Don’t fuck with someone’s trust by cheating on them. It’s not cute. It’s not something to brag about. Just stop.
Be a fucking decent human being and communicate with your significant other. If you’re not feeling it anymore, chances are, they’re not either. Be single and fuck around all you want. Don’t ever try to make excuses for your actions. Cheating doesn’t just happen. It’s a choice just like everything else in life.
I understand commitment issues and what do I do? I decide to just not commit. See how easy that is? I’m single and can do whatever the fuck I want without hurting anyone but myself. And that’s fine. But you can be damn sure that when I commit, despite my fears of abandonments and a list of a million other issues, I’m going to be loyal to my partner. I couldn’t fathom disrespecting them like that. I don’t understand how anyone could.
And if you know someone is cheating to be with you, what the fuck are you doing with your life? How can you be okay with coming into someone’s life and fucking up their home? I don’t care what kind of bullshit they feed you about their significant other, they are still significant to them. Why else would they stay with their partner AND fuck with you? Because you’re not worth it. They know how good they have it and they want more. You’re just more, and you’re replaceable. You really want to be replaceable to someone? You might not be worth much to the cheater that can hurt his/her partner, but you are worth the world to someone else. And you’re not going to find them in someone else’s relationship. Respect yourself more. Know your worth and know that it’s not okay to fuck with somebody who has somebody else.